these 5 words kept running round and round inside my mind. as in, it related to some events that i think i shouldnt and wouldnt blog on.
Anyway!
i was thinking...
lets say there's this senario whereby 2 little girls are quarrelling about....hmm..toys. A is playing with her toys one fine day and then B went over and snatch the toys away A scolded her and B started shouting as well MOTHER came and asked what happened, B started crying MOTHER scolded A
hahas. or lets say in another senario whereby this couple broke up Girl dont think it will work out anymore Guy still wanna patch up or sth Girl dont want Guy do lotsa things for the girl..buy flowers..buy sweets..very nice gifts for the girl But Girl just know that it wont ,WONT, work out Girl rejected Guy Guy hyper sad,dun wanna eat,grades drop, wanna jump down(suicide) Guy JUMPED and DIED.
ONLOOKERS will push all the blame to the Girl. " if only u accepted him he will not jump" , "you are so evil,so bad" , "he's so nice he said good things about u" , "he's so nice he bought so many things for you", ETC .
the one who cries first always wins the one who do stupid things always gain sympathy the one who looks sadder(emotionally) gets ppl to be on their side.
THAT's REALITY .
the innocent gets blamed, only the people ard them who're really close to them knows they're not doing the wrong thing.
in SCENE ONE if MOTHER is fair enough to sit down and get her facts right, A would not get blamed
in SCENE TWO if the girl accepted the guy's patch-back-actions she WONT be happy because her feelings are somehow drifted FEELINGS- a very important thing in anything or shd i say everything one-sided love , never lasts.
that's life. how unfair it is .
oh yeah.. TRUST is another issue. hahah. my boss told me loads of time not to get cheated or let anyone bully me cuz im too soft-hearted(=x)
in my P.O.V (point of view).... trust in someone/anyone only lasts for a period of time why??? cuz everyone's changing(i.e. they might like you this instant, but start hating u in some other ways) so yeah. ((:
